Practicing the Skill of Silence by Michelle Bauer
Michelle Bauer
April 6, 2020
Being silent is a skill we can develop.
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Being silent is a skill we can develop.
Recently I discovered that a very effective way to learn the game of chess is to begin by playing without the Queen. Because the Queen is the strongest chess piece, players often lean heavily on her for their overall strategy. Learning to play without her, however, forces you to recognize the value of all the other pieces on board, and
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