Practicing the Skill of Silence by Michelle Bauer
Michelle Bauer
April 6, 2020
Being silent is a skill we can develop.
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Being silent is a skill we can develop.
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The painting Reflections, celebrates the awesome process of changing into who we are and whose we are, God’s children, made in his image. God finds such delight in this process, especially when we reflect and acknowledge his grace within the journey.