Practicing the Skill of Silence by Michelle Bauer
Michelle Bauer
April 6, 2020
Being silent is a skill we can develop.
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Being silent is a skill we can develop.
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Stop inviting people to church! Stop it! Right Now!…Invite them, instead, to follow Jesus.
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